…These skills helped form a creative spirit that encouraged her to think outside the box to improve the quality of life of those in her care.
Sister Elaine Owens (Sister Marie Ella) was born February 8, 1941, in Staten Island, New York, one of two children — a daughter and son — of Cornelius and Ella Ackalitis Owens. Elaine attended Blessed Sacrament Elementary School and Saint Peter High School, both in Staten Island, before entering the Sisters of Charity on September 8, 1958. Sister Marie Ella earned a BA in History from the College of Mount Saint Vincent and a Master’s in Social Work from Fordham University. Additionally, Sister Elaine was certified by New York State as an alcoholism counselor and as a social worker.
Sister Elaine spent twenty-eight years in education. Her first mission in 1961 was at Resurrection in Rye, followed by Holy Name in Manhattan and Saint Brigid in Manhattan, where she was also the principal. In 1978, she became Director of Elementary Education for the Congregation, a post she held until 1984. Following a sabbatical at the Jesuit School in Berkeley, California, where she earned a Certificate in Theological Studies, she joined the Parish School Planning Office in the Archdiocese of New York in 1987 where she worked until 1991, first as Assistant to the Director and then as Director. From 1991 to 1996 she was a chemical dependency counselor, clinical coordinator and Director at the International Center for the Disabled in New York City. This was followed by three years at New York Foundling where she served as Director of Spiritual Development. From 1999 to 2018 she ministered in a variety of congregation assignments. From 1999 to 2007 she served two terms on the Council as Regional Coordinator. This was followed by years of service to our senior Sisters in a variety of capacities: Coordinator of Life Enrichment for Mount Saint Vincent Convent, Convent of Mary the Queen, Saint Patrick Villa; Administrator at Mount Saint Vincent Convent and, lastly, Family Representative at Kittay Senior Apartments.
Sister Elaine was a combination administrator, social worker, and pastoral minister. These skills helped form a creative spirit that encouraged her to think outside the box to improve the quality of life of those in her care. Two examples illustrate this: Sisters in education will recall the Futures Project she designed and the many discussions to enhance the teaching/learning process for teachers and students alike. The Sisters at Kittay will remember the bacon, sausage and scrambled eggs breakfast that Sister Elaine and helpers made every few weeks. What a unique way to build community spirit and, as one sister said, “It is amazing what an egg will do.”
Her final days were filled with fun and futuring as she attended the Federation Assembly of the Whole in Chicago. Imagine what conversations about this event she is sharing with the Sisters who have gone before her as she tells them: “You won’t believe what I did last weekend.” Rest in peace, Sister Elaine.
Date of Death
June 18, 2019
Age
78
Wake
Mount Saint Vincent Convent Assembly Room
6301 Riverdale Ave., Bronx, NY 10471
718.601.5370
Sunday, June 23, 2019
2:00 – 6:30 pm
Prayer Service: 4:30 pm
Mass of Christian Burial
Mount Saint Vincent Convent Assembly Room
Monday, June 24, 2019
11:00 am
Burial
Cremains to be buried at later date.
Missions
Archdiocese of New York
- Resurrection, Rye
1961–65, Teacher, Grade 1 - Holy Name, Manhattan
1965–67, Teacher, Grade 1 - St. Brigid, Manhattan
1967–78, Teacher & Administrator - Sisters of Charity Center, Bronx
1978–84, Director of Elementary/Secondary Education - Archdiocese of New York
Parish School Planning Office
1987–91, Assist. to Director, Director - International Center for Disabled, Manhattan
1987–91, Women’s Pastoral Counselor (PT)
1991–96, Chemical Dependency Counselor, Clinical Coord., Director - New York Foundling Hospital, Manhattan
1996–99, Director, Spiritual Development - Sisters of Charity Center, Bronx
1999–2007, Council, Regional Coordinator - Sisters of Charity Retirement Convents
2007–08, Coord. Life Enrichment for Retirement - Mount Saint Vincent Convent, Bronx
2009–13, Administrator - Sisters of Charity Center, Bronx
2014–15, Congregation Services - Kittay Senior Apartments, Bronx
2015–18, Family Representative
Our early training at the Mount was blessed as St. Joseph Circle. I will always remember the thoughts we shared before that last bell before night prayers. Especially,”Love turns drudgery into joy. “ The Imitation.
May a legion of Angel’s conduct her soul to a place of light and happiness
For her eternal reward.
Gentle soul with the biggest heart I will truly miss you my good friend
Your gentle heart and brilliant mind, and the kindness you showed me, will forever be in my heart. The Springtime’s we shared, with you boundless quest for knowledge about the beauty of wonders of nature that God had given to us, made the days we spent together, my most precious memories of you. Spring will come again, but without your presence, for me, it will never be as beautiful as it once was in the warmth of your friendship.
She was my godmother. She always had jokes and made me laugh. I’ll miss everything about her ❤️
Won’t easily forget her kindness, warmth, intelligence and good humor. Her last weekend in Chicago was partially spent planning future charity projects. Grateful for the light that she spread.
REST IN PEACE DEAR SISTER.
Sister Elaine holds a Very Special Place in my Heart. Didn’t see her much in last 15 years, but thought of her often. There is a Special Place in Heaven for Woman like Elaine. Rest in Peace My Dear Friend! ❤
Elaine and I were classmates and roomates at the Jesuit School of Theology at Berkeley (1985-1986). She and Fr. Ronald N. Carignan, OMI, who entered eternal life on August 7, must be singing together uplifting the heavens. They would give us a wake up call with their singing. I offer my condolences to the community.–S. Juana O. Villescas, SSCJ